Popular Nigerian dancer, Kafayat Oluwatoyin Shafau popularly known as Kaffy, has given more insights on her crashed marriage to her younger husband and drummer boy, Papi J Ameh.
Recall that in January 2022, the 42-year-old dancer made an announcement on Instagram, that her union with Joseph Ameh, a music director and drummer, is over.
Now, in a recent interview with media personality, Chude Jideonwo, Kaffy revealed that her husband slept with some of her close pals.
“If I had known I won’t have jumped into that fire, I thought he was just sleeping with strangers but I found out he was sleeping with my best friends, people I knew…I was thinking at the beginning that I had found someone to completely make me happy but that was selfish thinking, no human being should be your source of happiness.
When you see him, you will think he can’t even hurt a fly cos he is always calm, and he has now made me afraid of calm people cos hmm, inside he is. I held him in high regard until I had to ask him why he was treating me the way he was. I asked him, what do you have against me, that is making you sleep around and with my best friends.”
Speaking about how she moved on, Kaffy said, “I stopped sleeping with him because he was dishonest with me and it was when I stopped sleeping with him, that the greatest level of healing started.” Watch the video below;
See reactions below;
genevievengum2022: I am with her. I can never share my husband with any woman. You cheat on me, I divorce you straight
beautysecret_naturals: If being faithful to your partner is so much of a big thing that people find it difficult to do. Pls stay single…. not everyone can tolerate infidelity… I will say this loudly, no matter how forgiving and understanding you think your partner is.. infidelity will definitely change 50% of their feelings, love, trust and loyalty towards you.
jerr_malik: Na person wey never understand life dey get best friend.
dear_sommie: Fear guys that don’t talk … evil things 😩
hershabiedollshair.ng: Hmmm alot is happening in marriages oo..
broda_henry: I prefer outspoken people to the so called “I don’t talk much or quiet people